Tuesday, November 25, 2014

November 24, 2014

Hello My Favorite Family in the Whole Entire World!! So much has happened this week and I'm worried that I'm not going to have enough time to write about it all and answer all your questions but I will do my best! :) Lets do the questions first!

Elder McKenna are like brothers out here! Except we don't fight like brothers.. ;) He is AMAZING!!! His testimony is SOOO strong and the Spirit is always there as he testifies of truth! I also noticed that he bears his testimony frequently throughout the lesson, not just at the end like I'm used to doing. And boy does it play a difference! I can honestly see the effect bearing testimony frequently has on the people we are working with, especially those who are less-active or not active in the church at all. It allows them to ponder throughout the entire lesson or discussion on what they believe or what they used to believe and then the Spirit can touch their hearts easier and testify that what we are testifying and teaching about is true too. So, ya, he's fantastic! The work here is going pretty well! We have seen a lot of progress with the people that we are working with and have like 5 new potential investigators we are going to try to get in touch with this week! And the members are very helpful with that! I really like this ward a lot! The members are very willing to serve and help us serve! It's pretty different though than most wards, it's kinds like the Palo Verde Ward in East Tucson. The reason why is because most of the people in our ward are in the Army and the base is like 5 minutes away from our area. So people move in and out pretty frequently and most of the families are pretty young still. So getting members to come out with us at nights is kinda hard sometimes but they are all very nice and love making us food and such so it works out! Our ward mission leader is Brother Eagan. I don't know him very well still. He is very active in the church luckily (I have to say this cause some of the ward mission leaders in other wards are pretty less-active actually...) and even teaches the Gospel Principles class. That's great for us cause he knows how to teach simply and effectively and knows how to ask questions that make the audience think. That is going to be very helpful for us when we bring him out to lessons! Most people don't realize they are speaking in big words or using words the teachee's don't know and that can be very difficult for them and even a turn off to the Gospel sometimes. But that doesn't mean that we shouldn't use Gospel related words that only we use in the church, just make sure you know how to explain those terms simply and quickly so you can explain if someone does get confused. Our bishop is Bishop Williams. He is young too! His oldest is only 14! They have 6 kids and are a very happy and energetic family! We've spent a few hours over there with them and that was a great time to talk about people he wants us to visit and what we can do to help out the ward. That is pretty much all the questions I think. Oh, I love my bike now! It's fixed so it actually rides smoothly and shifts easily! I'm still in great shape too (somehow! That's a miracle!) so he doesn't go a lot faster than me, but he could if he wanted to! Luckily he is a nice guy and knows I'm getting old! ;)

Okay, where to start this week... Oh, I experienced the hardest thing I've ever had to witness before... It didn't happen to me personally but I was there to support the girl that it did happen to. I've been asked not to give too much detail so I'm going to try to not to. Jasmine is 17 and a senior in high school. She is a cheer leader and super happy and perky! We have been working with her, her mother, her mother's potential fiance' and her little sister. All 4 people were inactive members but are making a lot of progress on making it back to activity! So we've built up a pretty good friendship with them all over the past 2 weeks and broke a lot of barriers that they've kept up for years. There are still walls to climb over and break down but that will come with time and love. Anyway, because we've got close to this family and they can see we truly care about them, they asked us for some support for Jasmine... When Jasmine was 15, almost 16, she was sexually abused by a close family friend... for 2 years she has been battling with this, including therapy and lots of lawyers to get this guy behind bars where he belongs. Friday was one of the final hearings for the case. The guy had accepted a plea bargain and so Friday was the day they would shackle him up and take him away. Jasmine told her mother that she felt peaceful and calm when we were around and wanted that while she was at the hearing. The hearing was scheduled for 1:30. We showed up at about 1:15 laughing and joking and having a jolly good time. Things started to calm down and get a little quieter as we walked up the steps to the court house. As soon as we walked in, Jasmine saw "the guy" and immediately broke down into tears. The bailiff invited us into the court room and then told us the court was behind about 45 minutes to an hour. When her case finally came up, it was 3 p.m. For the last hour and a half, she had been trying to calm down and stop crying and finally succeeded at about 2:45. The hearing started at 3:00 and ended at 3:30. For all 30 minutes, I watched one of my friends who I'd never even seen seriously frown or sad before in tears and shaking on her mothers shoulder. And there was nothing that I could do to help her except pray for her. "The guy" was taken into custody and was escorted out in handcuffs by 2 officers. I don't think I've ever seen so much sadness in anyone's eyes or face as I saw with Jasmine. And it broke my heart... But just because he's in prison now, that doesn't mean everything is suddenly better and she's just fine. She has to live with that knowledge for the rest of her life. She doesn't have to have the pain or be hurt by it if she gives it to Christ but the memories will always be there... The reason I'm telling you this is because I learned something that day: everything we do, every little action or word or deed or thought effects someone around us, that even includes ourselves. No matter how small or insignificant we think it is, someone is watching us and is effected by our choices. This goes back to the tennis ball analogy I told you before. We are like tennis balls covered in flour. As you throw a tennis ball around that's covered in flour, it doesn't have to touch every spot in the room to cover it with flour. It just comes off as you throw it. As we are going around, doing our every day activities, we don't have to talk to everyone in order to effect them in some way. We have to be living our testimonies every day and showing everyone around us that we have taken upon ourselves the name of Jesus Christ and therefore are His representatives in every aspect. Yes we are only one person individually but even one voice can be heard in a crowd of voices or noises if we speak up loud enough. That's why missionaries are asked to wear white shirts and ties everywhere they go, we stand out in a crowd and people notice us. As we live our testimonies, we will stand out too with everyone around us. A less-active showed us a song that was kinda interesting. It was called "Rebel". The first words were "Jesus was a rebel!" It caught me off guard but as I listened, it was true. He didn't do the same things as everyone around Him did or told Him that He needed to do. Then a preacher guy started talking in the song and basically said "In the past, people were rebellious by smoking or drinking or partying and sinning. Everyone around us is doing these things so it's no longer "rebellious" to sin. If we really want to be rebellious then we need to read our Bible (including the BoM), go to church, and follow Jesus Christ. That's the only kind of rebellion left!" Im not saying we need to be rebellious per say, but the message behind it is true. If we live our testimonies of the church, we won't ever leave people hurting the way Jasmine was hurt. In fact, we will be the ones there comforting them when they are hurt by those not living the way Christ wants them to live!

Wow.... I don't know exactly where all that came from... I kinda spaced out there for a second or two and when I came to, I had a page long paragraph as you can see up above. I don't know why I felt like I needed to write all that but It's there and I don't feel like I should take anything out.

Let's change subjects though to something happier! This Sunday, we had the opportunity to go to 3 churches!! Not wards, churches! :) We went to an Evangelical Lutheran Church at 8:00 a.m. to start off our Sabbath. It was awesome!! The pasture saw us 4 missionaries in the back along with a few other new faces and invited us all to stand and introduce ourselves if we felt comfortable. No one else stood up after like 10 seconds so I thought "They already know we're here, let's let them know who we are!" So I stood up and introduced myself and then the other missionaries followed after me. As soon as we all sat down, these 2 people came from the back and gave us a handmade hot-pad and a small, wooden, hand-carved cross attached to a string. Everyone came up to us afterwards and greeted us with smiles and warm welcomes! It was great!! They were so nice to us! :) The preacher said something kinda profound though. In Matthew 25 it talks about serving the Lord by serving His brethren. He pointed out that when Christ thanked all of those who served His brethren, they didn't understand when they were serving Him. Then the preacher said, "These people served because of their love towards their fellow brethren, not because they were expecting something to come out of it. They didn't realize they were serving the Lord, just that they were serving their brothers and sisters." This is an example for us on true charity and love! How often do we serve people cause other people are watching or because we know that we will be blessed for it if we do it? We need to serve everyone around us cause we love them and because we love our Father and His Son, our Redeemer. Then we went to our ward at 11 and I was asked just before sacrament meeting started to give my testimony because their youth speaker wasn't going to show up. So I got to be a youth again for like 5 minutes! WOOT! Haha anyway I talked about the "tennis ball" analogy there as well and that was great! I realized though how much I am like dad! They way I speak, my short little laughs as I think of something or say something while I'm speaking, the way I raise my eyebrows at different points when I'm talking, I'm just like you pops! :) After church, we went to a Catholic Mass at a HUGE church next to our church building. It was beautiful inside! But there was most definitely a difference in the Spirit between all 3 churches. The Spirit was at the Lutheran church occasionally and could be felt here and there throughout the meeting. At the catholic church though, I couldn't hardly feel the Spirit at all... The people we nice and they talked about Matthew 25 too actually but the Spirit just wasn't as strong throughout the whole meeting. But at my ward, the Sierra Vista 1st ward, I could feel the Spirit the whole meeting!! All 3 hours were guided and inspired by the Spirit! It just confirms my testimony of the truth of the Restoration and that this is the true church against established on the earth! :)

We are working with a few people out here. Terrick is struggling a little bit. Not spiritually, but emotionally I guess. He lost his job and is fighting with his girl friend who he's been with for over 2 years. He hates being at home because of the temptations and trials that are there and to top it all off, the McKnights (his second family who are his biggest fellowshipper's and friends in the church) are out of town for the next week and a half. So he's been struggling quite a bit unfortunately. We talked to him yesterday and I asked him why he felt all of this was happening right now. He responded by saying "I know why. The McKnights are like my crutch right now but they are gone for a little while. I'm supposed to be baptized on the 6th and satan knows that. The devil doesn't want me to get baptized because the church is true and he knows I'm going to change my life for the better. I've been reading and praying every day and I just need to meet up with you guys so I can have the Spirit of the Lord with me stronger to fight off satan." What an answer!! Terrick never ceases to amaze me! I know that he is ready for baptism, I just pray that he will stay away from the temptations that are put in front of him and that he will continue to read and pray daily!

Also, Jasmine came to church this week! She stayed for the first 2 meetings but had to get home to start cooking turkey for her mothers work party. She said that she really felt the Spirit today and knew that this was where she needed to be! :)

I also talked to Elder Gilson this morning. Hope Young is currently in the hospital in Tucson. Her surgery is scheduled for tomorrow but today they have to check up on her to find out how bad whatever is going wrong actually is and what action needs to be taken. I don't know what they doctors have seen or what they haven't seen but I do know that she received a second blessing for her for during the surgery. I don't know what the outcome is going to be or if she is going to have to go into surgery but I know the Lord is watching over her and that if she needs surgery that she will heal quickly and not have to worry about it anymore. Thank you for praying for her and please continue to do so! They need all the prayers they can get!

Well my time is pretty much up so I got to get going. But I love you all so much! Thank you for the emails and helping me keep my mind focused on the work instead of reminding me that I only have like 6 months left. ;) LOVE YOU ALL!

~Elder Kyle Harris

Monday, November 17, 2014

November 17, 2014

Hello everyone! I don't have a ton of time unfortunately to email today cause we went on an awesome hike to come caves this morning and that took up almost all of our time... They are called the Coronado Caves I think. Basically, there is just a big whole in the side of the mountain and as you go deeper, it opens up into a GIANT cave! There are lots of tunnels and other little areas you can go from that big room but we mostly stayed there as a zone. It was actually really cool cause most of the people in our zone are musical and love to sing! And the shape of the cave is similar to the shape of the tabernacle in Salt Lake so you can hear everything in there! The acoustics are amazing! So we all gathered around in a big circle and for about 20 or 30 minutes we just sang songs. We started off with like "Come, Come Ye Saints" and just kept things going. We also said the song "Hallelujah" by Rufas Wainright and the some Disney songs that popped into peoples heads. It was AWESOME!!! It sounded so good (most of the time) and I recorded the whole thing! You can't see anything though cause it was pitch black inside of the cave and we asked that everyone turn off their lights for singing. 

I love my area. Elder McKenna is my best friend already! We have the exact same personality basically and that is really helpful for me! Now I don't have to change myself too much! Well, except in the good ways that a mission always changes you. :) Our area is pretty big and pretty ghetto. But we are totally safe and people loves us and respect us for what we do so don't worry about me! It's like 3 times safer than central Tucson. We have been doing a lot of service for an active family in the ward, the Froehlich's (like from the F.U.N. song from Spongebob when he says "F is for Frolicking through all the flowers). They have re-done the entire inside of their house from the floors to cabinets to the walls and everything in-between! We have helped her do a lot of painting and she asked me to be in charge of the base boards. That is really nice for me cause it is mathematical and I got to use a table saw! It worked out well :) I only messed up a few times but nothing that harmed me or anyone else or cost them anymore money luckily. So it totally worked out for the best!

We are also working with an investigator named Terrick. He is about 21 and just under 6 feet tall. But his big black afro makes him like 6 ft 3 in! He is African American and has completely changes his life around 180 degrees already! He has a past of drugs and spent some time in jail for getting into an argument with his girl friend who called the cops and said that he hit her. I don't know if he did or not but if so, she woulda had a big bruise cause Terrick is a UFC fighter! And he can bust out a rap like it's nobodies business! Anyway, he had been taught from Elder McKenna and Elder Cunningham a few times before and had even accepted a baptismal date for Dec. 6th. But we realized that he had no clue who Joseph Smith was. So we taught him the Restoration yesterday and it was a great lesson!! We have all our lessons at a members home named the McKnight's. They have basically adopted Terrick into their family without the paperwork involved. The parents both served in the same mission somewhere and that's where they met. They both have very strong testimonies, as do their 6 boys. So it is an awesome place for Terrick to be! Anyway, they all bore very powerful testimonies and the Spirit was very strong! We recommitted him to be baptized on the 6th of December and he is super excited for it! We also taught him about the Word of Wisdom and he committed to live that too. After the lesson, sister McKnight made cake so we call got some cake and sat around the table. Terrick asked Elder McKenna and myself if he could talk to us outside for a little bit in private. Kinda nervous and hesitant, we said yes and stepped outside. This is what he said to us:

"The other night I was out with my brother (who is 16) and some of his friends. Everyone except me was drinking, including the driver. The driver was the only other person besides me who was over 17 and she just barely turned 18. Well we were driving around and heading to a party but they wanted to get more alcohol. So we stopped at some girls house to get more alcohol and I just had an overwhelming impression that I needed to go home. So I asked the driver if she would take me home on the way to the party. She dropped me and my friend, Ty, off at my place and we just chilled the rest of the night at home. Well, about 5 minutes after they left my house, they got pulled over. My little brother and all his friends that were under 18 got arrested and taken home. The girl though, because she was 18, got arrested and is in jail tonight for drinking while under the influence and supplying minors with alcohol. Elders, if I had been in that car last night, I would be in jail right now too. But the Spirit of God talked to me last night and He kept me safe. I know it was Him. And that's why I know that what you are teaching me is true." I almost cried when he told us that! I went up and gave him a big bear hug cause of how proud I was for him!! I explained to him that he is what we call a "Golden Investigator" and what that meant. Brother McKnight later that night told me that Terrick isn't a "Golden Investigator"... He is a "PLATINUM Investigator"!! And it is so true!! I love him to death! I know he is going to get baptized! I just hope I'm here to witness it! :)

I did get my bike fixed by the way. I had a really bent chain and needed a new set of back gears. It only cost me about a total of $75. But the cool thing is that I got this bike for free from the mission. So I can sell it for like $100 and that will benefit both me and the missionary who buys it cause it is an expensive bike and has disk brakes and solid rubber tires that can never go flat! But we'll see what happens. :)

I’m very glad that you guys are safe coming down that mountain!! Don't scare me like that again, deal? That wasn't cool at all! it could have been a lot worse so I'm glad that the Lord answered your prayers! :) And who knows, maybe there was something up ahead that was in the road like a moose or something that you would have hit if you kept going down. That would have been worse than sliding into the ditch for sure! There is a blessing in it somewhere, you just have to keep looking for it! :) That cabin sounds very nice! I didn't even know we had a cabin, or that David had a cabin! Maybe I'll have my movie marathons up there when I get home!

Sorry this email isn't super amazing or long but I just wanted you all to know that I love you very much and I miss you more than you know! I pray for all of you that are included in this email that the Lord will continue to bless you with health and strength and guidance every night! Don't forget who you are and what you stand for!

~Elder Kyle Harris

p.s. The Phoenix Temple Dedication was this last Sunday. It was AWESOME! President Monson gave a talk then the dedicatory prayer. In his talk though, he said something to the point of "and soon we have Thanksgiving coming up. Oooo! Turkey dinner!!" then continued on with his talk! I laughed out loud when he said that and still laugh as I think of him saying it! Oooo! Turkey Dinner!!

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

November 12, 2014

Hello Family!!! Transfers have come and gone already... I swear that just yesterday we had our zone break-out session in the Gila Valley and everyone was introducing themselves. And that happened today again but here in Sierra Vista! Man oh man, I kinda wish that time would go slower but I can't wait to see what happens when I do get home! Like I said in my email on Monday, I am in Sierra Vista. Thank you mom and dad for checking out my area for me. It is a pretty nice town actually! It reminds me a lot of Lehi, except for the area that I'm currently living in. There are all the same stores that you would find in Central Tucson or even Salt Lake and just as many restaurants! No matter what I need, there is a store for it here. I was told that I was going to be in the Ghetto part of Sierra Vista but everyone that I talked to in the Valley didn't even know that there was a ghetto! And I was kinda surprised to find out that it is pretty ghetto, especially next to our apartments. We live in the 3rd Story of the Sierra Carmicheal Apartments and all of our surrounding neighborhoods are trailer parks. As we were driving this morning for our morning work out, the kids were coming to the curb to meet the bus. We passed about 30 or 40 kids and not a single one of them was white... I'm going to love this area! :)

My companion is Elder McKenna.  He is about 5'10" or so and super skinny. He has blonde hair that sticks straight up and brown eyes (i think they are brown). As I was at the transfer site, I talked to Elder Siglin (one of my companions in East Tucson like 6 months ago!) and he told me that Elder McKenna had a rough time with his trainer and that if I just stayed happy all the time that everything would work out great. I was kinda nervous coming into the area but we instantly clicked! He is really funny and is definitely "one of my descendants"! ;) He loves to play sports, especially golf and basketball. We are on bikes! I don't know whether I'm excited for that or not but I'm excited for the transfer! We have a decently big area. I forgot that my bike was broken though so Im gonna have to get that fixed today. I need a new derailer and a new set of front gears. Hopefully it won't be too expensive...

On Satruday before transfers, we had morning sports as a zone. It was fun to see everyone again before transfers. We played basketball for a little while and some dodgeball. I grabbed a basketball when we were finished and pretended like I was gonna dunk it. Amazingly enough, I hit the rim with my hand! Ii couldn't grip the ball cause it was super old and worn and slippery, but I grabbed a dodgeball and I dunked it! I couldn't get a video though cause I didn't have my camera... Well, out here in Vista, we played some basketball yesterday for sports. I grabbed a basketball and could palm it. And guess what.... I DUNKED A BASKETBALL 3 TIMES!!! I may not be able to beat you guys at ping pong but just wait till I come home and whoop you in basketball! It will be like playing against 6th graders! ;)

Mom, you talked to my two favorite people in the Gila Valley! I wasn't there for either of them but I wish I could have been! Sister Beals used to be a Sign Language Interpreter for a long time. So she and Elder Gilson got along really well. I loved spending time with them because they were always so spiritual and all the kinds were very good, honest, hard working kinds. They made you want to be better just by being around them! And then of course, Grandma Despain. If I could only pick one person I could go back and see, it would be Grandma Despain! I absolutely adore her! I have decided that if it's at all possible, I want to adopt her as my grandmother. I have never met anyone who is so loving and kind to missionaries, especially to me! She fed us every Monday and any other day that we needed it. Somehow, she could tell when we were lying about having a dinner and would make us one anyways knowing that we didn't have one even when we said we did! I guess I'm not as sneaky as I thought. ;) I wished that I could have done more to help her out! I feel like I told her plenty how much I loved her but I wish that I could have done more to show her how much I loved her! I will though when I get back! :)

Other random facts that I feel more comfortable talking about, today is my 17 month birthday!! I can't believe that the sisters that I came out with from the MTC are going home at the end of this transfer!! Crazy... Also, I have been thinking about the future and I think that I want to go into Pharmacy. :) What do you think? I don't really want to go back up to BYU Idaho but I need to retake a class or two. I would like to do online classes for those and then transfer to somewhere closer to home to do my generals and then go to a University to graduate! That would also provide me with an opportunity to do some intern work at a pharmacy before I get too far into school to make sure that it's something I actually want to do. There are a lot of really good schools that I can try and apply for, but the best ones are in Utah and Cali. We'll have to see what happens but I want to see if that works out. :)

Well, I best be off! My hour is about up. I want you to know that I love you and I miss you and I can't wait to talk to you on Christmas!! Rumor has it that we might not be able to skype though... it is using the members computers and that is against the mission rules... We will have to see what happens though! I'll keep you posted! I love you all so much!

~Elder Kyle Harris

Monday, November 10, 2014

November 10, 2014

Hey so this isn't my email for the week! As you know its transfers and I received a call. I will be staying district leader and be heading to Sierra Vista. My address will be:

800 S. Carmicheal Ave.
Sierra Carmicheal #313
Sierra Vista, AZ 85635

My companion is Elder McKenna. Turns out, in my mission posterity line, he is my great grandson! Im super excited! I will do my best to email tomorrow but I can't promise it will be super great and such. What I do know is I'm excited for the transfer and I can't wait to get out there and work!


~Elder Kyle Harris